My Family Won’t Accept That I’m A 52-year-old Grandmother Dating A 29-year-old Man

They are glued to their phones, brainless and want a sugar daddy so they don’t have to work. I prefer to be a natural, fit, healthy, outdoor loving, down-to-Earth, independent woman compared to a fake, shallow, brainless lazy one. I live in the PNW and dating is a faded memory for me. End of this year will be 10 years since I had a date. I want to find a women who is like minded, I find attractive and will be my best friend. There is some that are like minded, but there is a lot of very large women and I will not date them.

Dating an older man in your 20s and 30s is much different than dating one in your 40s, 50s, and 60s.

It’s a waste of time and money if what you are looking for is real and meaningful. I see a lot of reference to sexuality, and speaking as a 50-year old man, that becomes FAR less important. In fact, while I don’t have full-on erectile dysfunction, I’ve grown to be thankful that my penis doesn’t make any of my decisions anymore. My marriage of 27 years ended after I just flat stopped having sex with her after an entire marriage of being manipulated by my phallus.

Hi I am 66 and was just wondering if it would be ok. I lost my husband of 34 yrs in July and my mother recently. I am very attracted to the Funeral Director who is 53.

I got an avalanche of responses, and to my surprise, the majority of them were from younger men. ” and I’ve been very happily dating younger men ever since. I am a gentle-natured individual but strong in spirit.

Do You Text Your Grandkids? Read This Before Accidentally Making A Big Mistake.

I read your last couple of replies and agree with you about sticking to your values. Do not let anyone make you feel differently. Oh my…you do know who actually has all the power in the world…look at the CEO’s, judges, governments, across this world…now tell me women are in charge dude…Come on.. That’s not been my experience at all. Best of luck to everyone, hope you find exactly what you are looking for.

He still tells me I’m the woman of his dreams and I believe him. Women have a huge advantage in their younger years because they have beauty on their side. Men have a big advantage when they are older because they have more financial stability. Most men make their own way in life and dont want to depend on a women for financial support.

Let alone anything else that goes beyond the first date. Nothing works for me, when it comes to dating. I watch couples enjoy themselves and I fantasize that that is me with someone. I have seen good looking women complain that they are unable to get a date with someone.

Since women aren’t interested, I have never asked any woman out. Friends tell me that all I have to do is flirt a bit and ask women out and I’ll have lots of dates. No – all I would get would be an unbroken string of rejections. I cannot flirt because I am not sexually attractive to any woman, so there is no point in trying. Either a guy has what it takes to turn a woman on or her doesn’t. I can understand the desire men over 50 would have for women in their 20’s, 30’s, and early 40’s but I just wonder what the commonalities are with that big of an age difference.

For me this is a dream come true like in the movie an Officer and a Gentleman! Thanks for these blog type articles, they have and continue to help me. There is nothing wrong with dating a younger man. I’ve always loved dating older women.

How well does the rule reflect scientific evidence for age preferences?

In your longer, unedited letter, you say that your marriage broke down when your children were very young and you spent years as a working single mother. That will have involved considerable self-sacrifice. I think it is perfectly okay, unless of course there are things such as abuse, physical beatings, etc. But if they both like each other then by all means lets make the world a better place to live and be happy.

I don’t know what to do so I bought a motorcycle and started hiking constantly. I think women are attracted to me but I am introverted. I abhor dating sites and social media and wish for the days when everyone wasn’t buried in their phones. Sometimes, I feel painfully alone, and other times my solitude is pure bliss. I’m just an idiot who want company, to feel something again.

When I think about what would be involved in making a life together, it’s quite overwhelming. Jeffery…I am sad just reading your story. I am very sorry for the loss you suffered. As far as the women who laughed in your face, they are very disrespectful, and they have surely missed out on a chance to be with someone who has a lot of love to give. Quite often love can come to us when we least expect it. I hope that will be the case for you, and soon.

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